Relationship to self

When we consider our relationships to others, how often do we consider our relationship to our self, either with a small or big 'S'? Do we give as freely to ourselves as we do to others? Do we allow the time and care for ourselves that we do for others? Often we can find that we treat ourselves worse than we would think about treating another person but may not always consider the implications of this. So maybe now is the time to consider our relationship with ourselves?